Red flags for dating a loser
Don’t do this, and don’t tolerate your partner doing it to you.When both of you are coming from the place of “I do things for you because I love you and I want you to feel appreciated” then your relationship will flourish.Each chapter includes a profile of a different loser, a post-date quiz to help you determine if Mr. Wrong, and important information about the best way to break up with him.Red Flags has all the fun of a magazine quiz combined with the expertise of psychologists who specialize in the techniques used by the police to profile criminals.Sexual intimacy is a mutually beneficial act that makes both parties feel loved.If they ever use sex (either as a reward, or withholding it as a punishment) as a tool to get what they want then you can be sure this is a massive red flag.
I must have read it 7 times then finally came away from it with this: So it was an interesting read but this book has major problems. Second, it's only directed against men and not women. It can't hold a candle to Barbara Deangelos Let me preface this by saying that I think men are great in a variety of ways.
First of all, you can red flag anybody in it, even the nice guy. I did find this book to be the epitome of misandry (hatred of men) which is the opposite of misogyny, and I felt it was very unfair to men. So this book isn't about gender-bashing, but to learn more about unhealthy patterns in relationships and ways to avoid participating in those.
A very eye-opening discussion about relationships and I would love to see the ladies' version of this book.
Gary Aumiller and Daniel Goldfarb call "Red Flags." The question then becomes how to detect and respond to a Red Flag before it's too late.
This first-of-its-kind book will help readers determine a man's all-important "loser potential" within the first three dates.