Overcoming shyness and dating
If You Don't Have Inner Game, They Won't Go Beyond "Let's Just Be Friends..." I see a lot of guys learning the "48 Second Technique To Get A Woman's Phone Number." Yeah, great stuff, until you realize that this will not guarantee you: In fact, getting a phone number is only the START of the game.
If you don't have the confidence and psychology mastered in advance, you probably won't even get past the approach - IF you even approach her at all.
And let's face it, no one ever explains to you how your mind works - or teaches you how to control and manage your emotions and thoughts.
I went through all 12 grades of regular school, and another 6 years of college, and I never once did a teacher tell me how to be more confident. She was tall, thin, red hair, and a hot body that just drove me crazy... We had been dating about 3 months when I started feeling myself go down that old familiar road of "You're Messing This Up!
(Especially when I was just a young boy and I needed it the most! We're supposed to just "figure it out" all on our own. " You know, when you can't believe you're worthy of this girl, and then you start like you're not worthy? Self-sabotage..." First I got drunk at her high school reunion, then I started doing those typical self-destructive things, like calling her too much, and going over to see her all the time. ) She wasn't home when I got there, so I waited in the parking lot for her. I fell into a deep depression after all this and went to go see a therapist.
And thanks to television shows and "pickup artist" stuff, women know all about the routines and openers you use.Skyrocket your success with women, increase your social circle, and get rid of your anxious fears once and for all...FROM: Carlos Xuma Thursday - PM Dear Friend, Confidence is the number one concern for every guy I've ever met.Have you ever felt: ..you're destroying your chances with women because you don't have the level of self-confidence you need?..you're barely maintaining your level of confidence with women - and sometimes you feel like you're actually back-sliding in your game?