Dating your sibling

Writing about how you feel could be a useful outlet, remembering these very strong feelings may subside as you get used to the situation.

If you’ve a friend or family member who you can trust to share your concerns in confidence this may be useful, although you’ll want to avoid this escalating into a family drama.

She may not be able to tell you that she is using your question, but will try to email you the reply if she does.

All questions will be kept anonymous and key details, facts and figures may change to protect your identity.

Be upfront and clue your friend in on how you’re feeling.

They’ll be glad they heard about it from you, and not someone else!

I tried to talk to her about it, and put our friendship first again, but it was too late.

That's the last time I’ll date a best friend’s brother!

This might include: At the same time you may want to see the positives about the situation.For that reason expressing these feelings on Facebook is best avoided.If your feelings stem more from your problems with relationships and/or confidence, counselling may be of benefit If you have real concerns that won’t go away are you able to speak to them individually or together?You state in your letter how you care for them both.Perhaps all you need to say to them for now is this and that you’re glad they are happy.

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