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I went for a drink with a guy I had been chatting with online.

He seemed pretty normal (good job, intelligent, funny).

He then started reeling off names of people I'm friends with on Facebook, even though I hadn't told him my last name and we weren't Facebook friends!

I was incredibly freaked out and threatened to call the police, which scared him off.

His first question on sitting down with our drinks was whether I was up for anal.

I bypassed and watched him drink his body weight in shots before he started crying about his ex-girlfriend and then threw up down my shoulder when I was trying to walk him home.

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After a few days of talking on Whats App, our conversation fizzled out, and we stopped talking.

I looked at him quizzically, and he said, "You need to change your pad before you go to bed — you could get TSS [toxic shock syndrome]." He proceeded to argue with me for a solid 10 minutes about whether or not I should change my pad.

His argument was that he was an EMT and has a sister, so he "knows all about these things." My argument was that I've had a vagina for 20 years.

I said, "Definitely not." A few minutes later he dropped something on the floor, and while retrieving it tried to put the toes of my crossed legs in his mouth. I met a guy on Ok Cupid, and we hit it off pretty well.

After we hung out a few times, he came over to my place with a bottle of wine and a movie.